“Feelings are magnetic. So it goes that if you generate certain feelings (and you have the power to create any feeling you desire) then you increase the power of your emotional magnetism. But we need to limber up, loosen the images and adjectives encrusted on our goals and most-desired states. It helps to get poetic, lyrical, and abstract.” So says Danielle LaPorte.
Based out of my hometown of Vancouver Danielle LaPorte is my latest hero/guru/mentor that I’ve never met. Somehow I stumbled upon her wicked-awesome, totally inspirational website back in the fall when I googled “inspiration”, I think. Ah Google, where would I be without you?
Danielle doesn’t know me, but she’s already had a very profound impact on my life to date. We’ve never emailed personally (though I do receive her weekly words of fiery wisdom). And when I joined Twitter last weekend and she started following me (likely as a result of me retweeting one of her posts) I must admit I felt a little starstruck, and was essentially over the moon with joy & pride. In short, Ms LaPorte rocks my world as of late.
Her latest website endeavor is The Burning Questions - and I invite you to join me in reflecting on Danielle’s questions each week. Because it is fun, and good for the soul. This I deeply believe.
The question du jour (or week as it may be) is HOW DO YOU WANT IT ALL TO FEEL?
Well, for those among you who would like to know...
I want my day to feel like warm fresh laundry.
I want kissing to feel like Alice falling down the rabbit hole.
I want my next success to feel like Danielle LaPorte felt on the day (last month) when her yet-to-be-released book made the Amazon bestseller list, on pre-orders!!!
I want my body to feel like a cello that has lived and been loved for generations (like the violin in that movie, The Red Violin)
I want my nervous system to feel like the ocean air.
I want my neighbourhood to feel like the city I fell in love with when I moved to Toronto at age 17 in the year 2000.
I want my friendships to feel like... Like cosmic unbreakable networks of light and love so deep and true that it is tangibly thick like honey; Like honey-sweetened chamomile tea that you drink on sick & tired days; Like silk handkerchiefs that dry the tears of broken hearts and bruised egos; Like a magic mirror that allows you to see yourself with the love and compassion and clarity with which those who love you see you; Yes, like all that!
I want my ideas to feel like fireworks set to a soundtrack of Matisyahu, Stravinsky, Michael Jackson and of course, my firework girl herself, Katy Perry.
I want my laughter to feel like rainbows and bubbles on a west coast summer day.
I want my word to feel like diamonds in the rough.
I want my money-making to feel like a firm handshake.
I want my philanthropy to feel like breathing.
I want smiling to feel like truth.
I want my challenges to feel like The Grouse Grind.
I want my love to feel like a well-worn flannel baby blanket.
I want my writing to feel like raw honest sculptures of the imperfect human form.
I want being of service to feel like child's pose.
I want the end of the day to feel like slow dancing.